I broke up with this guy about three months ago now and I just can’t get over him. Everything reminds me of him. We were together for six months and I thought this was the one.

He figured we were not going anywhere and he has just got a new girlfriend. Everybody tells me just to move on but I can’t. I want him back in my life. What can I do to make him realise I am his true love?

AGONY AUNT

I DON’T mean to sound harsh but six months hardly seems long enough for you to decide that he is your “one and only”. While breakups are never easy, at least you didn’t have years of history and memories to deal with. I agree with the Boys this week. This guy doesn’t want a relationship with you and has clearly moved on. You must do the same.

Nothing good ever comes from pining over somebody who doesn’t want you. I hope you are not still trying to contact him and watch his every movement. Clear your space of his “stuff” and spend time with friends, (not mutual). Get physical, exercise is good for emotional upheaval. Delete him from your contacts list, Facebook and any other option you have for contacting him or watching him.  Always remember that when one door closes another opens. Don’t be so busy looking behind you that you fail to see the opening door in front of you. Time and determination will heal your heart. Keep smiling at all costs.

BOYS CLUB

LEAVE the guy alone, he obviously doesn’t want you and has moved on.