My partner only wants to have sex with me when he’s drunk.  

If I say anything about it, he jokes “That it is  the only time he can face touching me”.

We’ve been together for six years and our life has become very mundane.

We often sleep in separate beds because of his snoring.

Yet any time he comes home after drinking with his friends, he’s all over me.

All I crave is a normal, loving relationship.

Why should I have to put up with this?  

Is there anything I can do to change this?

YES, there is very definitely something you can do – damn well leave this neanderthal!

What sort of man is he to tell you he can only touch you if he is drunk?  

Where is your self respect?

You don’t need a column to answer your question – use your brain!

On what particular planet do you actually think that it would be OK for a man to treat his lady like this?

Surely you do not think that his behaviour is normal or indeed that you deserve it?

Get some friends and family to support you,  a counsellor if you really feel you need it and kick this dude to the curb.

SOMETIMES you girls ask really silly questions!