I do hope that you can help me. I have been diagnosed with terminal cancer.
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While I accept that is my fate, I have decided that I wish for nobody to be made aware. This includes my husband, children, and grandchildren.
I understand that many would believe I am being selfish by perhaps not allowing these family members their time to prepare for my passing, but I want to have as much time as possible unencumbered with the spectre of my death. I realise that at some time they will need to be made aware, but I just want time for some normal. Am I being selfish?
AGONY AUNT
Firstly, let me tell you how sad I feel for you - no pity, but sadness that this terrible disease is set to take another beautiful soul from us. I truly understand your desire to live for as long as possible, without every day being a constant and consistent reminder of your time remaining. I also understand your desire to spare your family for as long as possible.
I do not for one moment consider you selfish; quite the opposite. At some stage the awful reality will be upon you all, until then it is your life, live it to the fullest and on your terms. I wish you well on your journey.
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