Dear Agony Aunt,
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My fiance and I broke up for a couple of months, and in that time he was with another women. Believe it or not, a surprise pregnancy was the result. Ultimately we sorted our issues and are now about to be married.
Problem is this woman uses every opportunity she can find to make contact with him, of course she uses the child. It is the only thing she can use. My fiance is kindhearted and can’t see what she is doing. I am not that stupid, how can I get to a stage where contact is made only when necessary. There is a court order for access and all those things have been done. She is just playing games and probably hoping to reunite with him. Had enough!
AGONY AUNT
The old ‘use the child’ trick. Age old and can be seen from a mile away. I understand what you are saying, she is distracting you from your relationship with your fiance when it is not necessary. And yes she does know what she is doing, it ensures he cannot have a life without her being ever present in some form. Of course your fiance can’t see it, guys usually can’t. I know the Boys it will sort itself out eventually, I don’t have that same confidence. I’ve seen it all before.
This woman needs to get her own man and be in contact with your man only when necessary. Maybe go see her… that really is the only other alternative to sitting back and hoping it resolves itself.
BOYS CLUB
Leave sleeping dogs lie. He will work it out eventually.
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