In days not so long ago a pub was a way for many to meet a possible romantic interest.
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They might bump into each on the dance floor then get to know each other over a few drinks.
It is quite the understatement though to say the dating environment has changed dramatically, even if the aim of meeting someone new remains the same.
Social media has taken over in so many ways, and when it comes to dating things are no different. Dating apps mean that meeting someone can be as simple as turning on your phone and swiping left or right.
Sometimes though the convenience can come at the cost of adding to the unknowns, especially when you are relying only on a photo and profile on your smart phone that could easily be, intentionally, misleading.
That does not mean that this form of dating does not work and cannot be a lot of fun. But there are also many instances where it does not bode well.
Put simply, a person on such a date may feel threatened or generally ill at-ease with the other person. It is clear then that there needs to be a way to discreetly seek out assistance so the person concerned for themselves, or generally feeling uncomfortable, can leave without feeling any more at risk.
That is now on the way through an initiative that only requires people to ask a question.
And that is: “Is Angela here? Can I speak to Angela.”
This is the cue for staff at pubs and clubs to know that the patron is stuck in an uncomfortable situation with a stranger.
The staff member can then take whatever steps are appropriate to help the concerned person leave the venue safely. That could involve a simple escort outside, phoning for a taxi or even contacting the police.
The campaign was launched in Albury recently by NSW Racing Minister Paul Toole and is being introduced after a lot of work by the Albury Liquor Accord. It has been operating in Wagga since May.
Authorities want people to know that “Ask for Angela” should never replace the need to call police where is actual or threatened violence. It is an alternative for non-life threatening situations.
The minister is quite right in congratulating the accord for taking such a enthusiastic approach in helping to instigate the program, which no doubt will add a feeling of safety for those who use dating apps.
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