Dear Aunty,
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I need some advice on child rearing. My hubbie and I seem to disagree consistently on discipline of our two kids. He seems to think that they should be able to behave as they wish and that they will grow out of their selfish and at times quite rude behaviour. I believe that these attributes left undisciplined will yield selfish, rude adults.
Not only do we disagree generally, but he will always override my attempts at making them behave, in front of them. We have been called to the school because of their behaviour and still he doesn’t see any problem. What can I do?
AGONY AUNT: THERE is no doubt that undisciplined kids usually produce undisciplined adults. It is important here that not only do you believe there is a problem but so does the school.
As parents we all know that lack of consistency with parenting allows kids to “play the game” of dividing and conquering their parents and ultimately getting away with whatever they please.
Your husband needs to take heed before it is too late. Maybe take him to the school next time there is a complaint so the reality and seriousness of your kids behaviour sinks in.
As for you, I suggest you keep doing what you believe is right and advise your husband in the strongest terms that you will not condone or allow him to override you in future.
It is a parent’s duty of care to ensure that their offspring present the best adult possible. Stay strong, you are correct.
BOYS CLUB: COMMUNICATION is key. Both your husband and your kids need to listen to you.
- EMAIL: aunty.agony@outlook.com