Dear Aunty,
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A FEW years ago I met a wonderful person. I was with him for about three months. My problem was that one night he said those three little words, and I panicked and disappeared from his life. I know it was a horrible thing to do. I just didn't know how to handle his sudden declaration after such a short time together.
I have felt horrible that I vanished without any explanation and most likely hurt him. I really would like to apologise for my actions and immaturity. He didn't deserve the way I behaved. I have been wondering if it would be all right to send an apology, or if it would be best not to open potential wounds. He was a nice guy, he just caught me when I wasn’t being very nice I guess.
AGONY AUNT
I MUSt say it is nice to see a person decent enough to recognise their poor behaviour and attempt to make amends. Apologise by all means but make sure you are not expecting to pick up where you left off.
I’m sure this guy has moved on without any huge scars, after three months a declaration of love is probably a wee bit enthusiastic and would take most thinking people by surprise. We all make mistakes, apologise and move on.
BOYS CLUB
YOU have obviously deeply hurt this poor guy. He has given his all and you kicked him in the teeth. Email him and ask for forgiveness.